Question 5:
I’m a woman but I feel an intense physical attraction to my female colleague, who is married with three children. I think she feels the same way. Should I do something or would I just be causing trouble for everyone?

Violet Lim If I were you, I’d take a step back because I don’t want to be the one who destroys someone else’s marriage and family. Like you say, you don’t know how happy she is in her marriage. But the fact that she’s still married means she is still keen to make it work. Also, she has three children. We all know that children grow up better in a normal family than a family where the parents are divorced. If she does like you, can you live with the fact that you are a home wrecker?

Mrs. Ivy Singh-Lim If I were you, I’d take a step back because I don’t want to be the one who destroys someone else’s marriage and family. Like you say, you don’t know how happy she is in her marriage. But the fact that she’s still married means she is still keen to make it work. Also, she has three children. We all know that children grow up better in a normal family than a family where the parents are divorced. If she does like you, can you live with the fact that you are a home wrecker?

Dr. Norman Li Letting her know is easy. The next time you’re alone, simply tell her. You’ll find out if she’s ready to start something. The hard part is dealing with potentially wrecking a family. I’ve seen this exact scenario play out before—the two women ended up fairly happy and moved in with each other but I can’t say the same for the husband and children.

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