Ensnare her senses. Don’t bore your sweetheart with the same old moves tonight in bed. After lighting the candles and slipping on her blindfold, soak your hands with aromatic oils and move themsensually over her body. You’ve got two left hands? Forget the blindfold, just draw a bath and mix in some Red Roses Bath Oil from Jo Malone (B3,000 at M/F, Siam Paragon, 02-610-7755).

Learn to give her a proper massage. Everyone knows about Wat Po, but did you know that you can also opt for a superspeed 2-day course at Hi Care Beauty&Spa and know how to allure her with an enchanting foot massage too. 15-hour course for B1,990. Call 084-001-8987 or go to www.hicarespa.com

Go All Wong Kar Wai. With Sunday brunches you can eat and drink all you want in a five-star atmosphere, without getting too nasty a surprise when you ask for the bill. The problem is that they’re not that sexy. Except at China House (Mandarin Oriental, 48 Oriental Avenue, 02-659-9000. www.mandarinoriental.com), where B1,600 (booze included) gets you great Chinese food, a private little alcove (make sure you ask for it when you book) and a passionate sensual décor of red and black lacquer.

Impress on a budget. Can’t afford Sirocco or Vertigo? We know of a dining spot on top of a hotel residence with spectacular 360 degree views and dishes that cost only B150-500. Top 10 ( 649/1-176 Asok Dindaeng Rd., 02-641-6060. www.top10bkk.com. If she’s a foodie, stick to our food editor’s recommendations on page 26.

Diamonds are a girl’s best friend. If a ring sounds too scary, we suggest you take a smaller step with this heart-shaped pendant from De Preco. They make an adorable18-karat white gold covered with dazzling round diamonds. Available in leading department stores, Try 2/F, Emporium, call 02-267-4619, or go to www.deprecodiamond.com.

Buy her the sweet scent of luv. Perfume isn’t any more groundbreaking than flowers—and fraught with so a lot more perils. Here are three tips for the odor-impaired. Dior Addict (B3,800) has sugary and spicy notes (we’ll let you picture the matching girls) with hints of cinnamon, vanilla, patchouli, cedar, jasmine and myrrh. If she’s more innocent and active, Chanel Coco Mademoiselle (B3,580) is filled with flirty exotic notes, including Sicilian orange, bergamot, bourbon vanilla and white musk. But the most elegant is perhaps Chanel Beige (B5,000), a covertly alluring choice with a refined bouquet of freesia, frangipani and hawthorn, with the smallest drop of honey, only at Chanel Boutique.

Get her flowers. Clichéd? Yes. Will it make her happy? Definitely. Try Close To Nature (B/F, Chamchuri Square, 02-269-9992. www.close2nature.net), whose flowers come in fresh and unique designs, offering you also choices of cards, teddy bears, and includes a delivery service (starts from B550). But if you prefer a more traditional handover, check out the Valentine’s offer at www.misslily.com (starts from B1,500).

Cook for her. Need a recipe even a Neanderthal could make? Fear not, we spoke to Chef Aaron Adler, of small-plates bistro Serenade (Grass Thong Lor, 264 Soi Thong Lor, 02-713-8409. Open Mon-Fri 11:30am-2pm; daily 5-11pm), and here’s his failsafe suggestion: a crabmeat and rocket salad.
* 250g of blue swimmer crab lump meat (easily found at any market)
* 75g mayonnaise (I prefer to make my own, but any American or European style mayonnaise is fine.)
* 1Tbsp Spanish capers
* 1Tbsp finely sliced celery
* 1tsp minced shallot
* 1Tbsp minced onion
* ½ Tbsp minced dill
* ½ Tbsp minced Italian parsley
* 1 squeeze of lemon
* A dash of red wine vinegar
* Salt and pepper to taste
* 50g rocket
* 2/3 tsp extra virgin olive oil
* A dash of salt and pepper

1. Mix gently in a bowl—being certain not to destroy the full, meaty texture of the crab while incorporating all of the ingredients and their flavors.
2. Place your rocket and olive oil in a separate bowl, add the dash of salt and pepper. Stir together gently and place on a chilled plate. Top the rocket salad you’ve just made with a healthy spoon of the crab, garnish and serve!
3. Now kiss the lady/gentleman that you love.

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7 Ways to Make Him Happy

Give him a lap dance. Pole dancing is a great way to de-stress, get fit and seriously spice up your foreplay. A one-hour class is only B400 at Rumpuree Dance Studio (5/F, Amarin Plaza, Ploenchit Rd., 081-430-6684. BTS Chil Lom. www.rumpuree.com).

Show him you’re GGG. According to sexpert Dan Savage, we should strive to be “Good in bed, Giving equal time and equal pleasure, and Game for anything—within reason.” Nothing says GGG louder than getting him a Tenga; cans filled with mushy latex and goo that can simulate just about any human orifice— only wetter, tighter and with more tickly things inside. Your best best is www.tenga.co.th.

Take him for a shave. Every man dreams of getting a classic barber shop shave, but few ever splurge on this old-school indulgence. And just think of the smooth kissing session to follow. Try Blue Harbour (93, 2/F, K-Village, Sukhumvit Soi 26, 02-661-2901). Or the even more classic Barber Shop (left) at the P&L Club (Conrad Bangkok, All Seasons Place, 87 Wireless Rd., 02-690-9999).

Show off. If he gets you lingerie for Valentine’s Day, he’s a douche. But if you get yourself lingerie for him to admire, then it’s more than OK. Try the Lingerie Salon (1/F, Siam Paragon, 02-690-1000) or, for something more hi-so, go to Boudoir by Disaya Boutique 2/F, Beacon Zone, CentralWorld, 02-646-1455).

Then take it off. If you’re going to be wearing a sexy thong, please make sure there are no hairs poking out. Head to Reveal Wax Salon (Thonglor Soi 13, 02-712-8209. Open Tue-Sun 10:30am-8:30pm. www.revealwaxsalon.com) for a wax job that can cover (or uncover, rather) any of your intimate parts. We highly recommend the “all off” Brazilian/Boyzilian (from B1,200) for a super smooth sensation.

Indulge the kid in him. Get your man an XBox 360: Kinect and he’ll love you for life (you may also see him a lot less). Although not officially sold here, you can try Pantip or www.nadzproject.com for the authentic Japanese version, B5,400-B5,900.

Get him a new ride. Let him pay for his own new car, but why not spoil him with a sexy new bike from Bike Zone (2/F, Outdoor Unlimited Zone, Amarin Plaza, 02-652-1559. BTS Chitlom). Apart from the fact that riding in the city’s so naew now, his legs will be so buff and sexy you won’t be able to keep your hands off him.

7 Ways to Make Her Happy

HAPPY TOGETHER

HAPPY ALONE

Valentine’s buyspy

BK Asks: What’s the dumbest thing  a guy has done to impress you?

BK Asks: What do you do when you like a boy/girl?

1. B1,550, Nike

2. adidas, B3,990

3. Nike, B1,950

4. adidas, B4,990

5. New Balance Sonic 574, B3,250

6. Puma, B3,495

7. Baby-G, G-Shock, B6,900

8. B2,690, adidas

Essentials

Vii Athletic Club. Siam Square Soi 1, 084-705-7744. www.viiathleticclub.com
Supersports. Try 3/F, CentralWorld, 02-640-7000.

Park Lane

If you’ve been going in and out of Ekkamai recently, you can’t have missed this new community mall not too far from the Sukhumvit intersection. You might say, “Another community mall? Big deal.” But it feels pretty different from the likes of J Avenue or K-Village with its exclusive and contemporary Greek vibe and, compound-style set up, where every shop has its own unique entrance and interior designs.
Shops are separated into three sections over two floors. Zone A is where all the food is, and without needing to take a closer look, you’ll notice that Japanese dominates here, with a repertoire that includes Yamagoya ramen, Moshi Moshi yakiniku, sukiyaki-shabu Donabe, Honmono sushi bar and Omu in Building 3 for Japanese dishes made out of omelet and rice. Craving something else? Head to Wan Chai Cafe for Hong Kong cuisine. Fans of overseas beers should check out Pint on the 1/F, and those partial to wine have Salute Bistro & Wine Bar to investigate.
Apart from all the fancy restaurants, there’s a spa on 2/F, OPI Boutique (nail salon) on 1/F, MaxValu Supermarket play center on 3/F, and Scuderia Golf Park on 5/F. You can expect numbers of concept fashion stores selling trendy clothes and glossy brand names bags for young hi-so ladies. And if money’s not a concern, you might like to swipe your card for some bling at Beauty Gem or David English. Our pick? Kin&Co., a one of a kind stationery store selling paper and more that you won’t be able to find in chains like B2S. We also like Second Floor, a multilabel store selling imported brand name fashion bags and clothings.

Ready to spend half your paycheck on your poodle? Bring your baby dog to Twinkle, a Japanese pet shop and café located in building C. Here they not only groom and style your dogs, but also serve your little friends with pet-friendly snacks. They also offer a 5-star pet accommodation or help you find a pet-friendly property. For mothers, 3/F offers lots of activities for your tots, including an indoor playground (B90-B180 for entry) while you go enjoy your time shopping or getting a hairdo at Heads Up or Seat for Set.
18 Soi Sukhumvit 63 (Ekkamai), 02-382-1580. BTS Ekkamai. Open Daily 9am-10pm. www.parklanebangkok.com

Baan Ekamai

Competing with the other hi-so community malls popping up all other town, Baan Ekamai isn’t just content with being tiny. The stuff it sells is also truly distinct thanks to cheaper prices and a retro/secondhand vibe. You could say Baan Ekamai is a bit like Siam Square getting its own micro-community mall.
Baan Ekamai’s two houses are in matching pink, green, and blue pastels. A wooden deck extends from one of the houses, with outdoor seatings and a ping pong table. There’s a tiny parking that might fit only 3-4 cars. Throw in five shops and that’s it:
Cocue Basics. In the pink house on the right, you’ll find huge stock of new and secondhand vintage-style fashions from the renowned Cocue Basics from Siam Square to get that funky, manly to girly layered look.
Heidi’s Secret. On the first floor of the blue house, check out renowned Thai designers Heidi’s Secret’s streamlined take on the sweeter side and some punky gimmicks.
Him&Her. By the staircase, you’ll find a little closet of a boutique selling both new and secondhand clothes that only the hippest of hipsters will dare wear. The shop is co-owned by the young Thai celeb Ploi Horwang, and without doubt, her bold style is what you’re going to get out of that cupboard. Hence the name, outfits for guys are also available.
Zud Rang Ma. Climb up to 2/F and you’ll see a small shop selling indy records and some old rare vinyl starting from B50-B30,000
Felice. Once you’re done with the shopping, head to Felice’s cute balcony for some pastas and desserts (B180 to B260), cocktails and wine starting from B180—there’s indoor seating, too.
Despite its size, Baan Ekamai provides a welcome home for Ekkamai’s cool kids to socialize and share their interests in fashion, food, music, and art. But with a selection this bold, you better have a strong personal style to carry it off. Car park’s limited though, so better come by a cab.
77, Soi Chamchan (connecting Thonglor and Ekkamai), 081-855-5777. Open Daily 11am-11pm. baanekamai.blogspot.com

Marsi

44/15 Convent Rd., opposite BNH Hospital, 02-632-0041. Open daily 10am-8pm.
The newest option for Silom and Sathorn office workers who are addicted to treatments in Japanese-style salons. A compact-sized space decked out with simple designs and lots of white, Marsi Salon & Spa is one of the best places to get a long, concentrated head massage as well as a Japanese-style digital perm that makes you look like a kawaii Tokyo chick.
Best for: Office workers who need a cozy break from work, and will settle for a new hairdo instead of a new job.
Price: Haircuts start from B400 for men and B500 for women.

Luis KraEmer

3/F, RSU Tower, Sukhumvit 31, 02-662-2714. Open daily 10am-8pm.
The French salon with 47 branches in France alone, as well as other European countries, has landed in Bangkok with a modern contemporary boutique decked out with graffiti, geometric motifs and vivid colors. Despite a full staff of well-trained Thai stylists available all the time, professional hair stylist Vincent Berenguer flies in from the headquarters in France every two months to offer Thai customers the latest Parisian look.
Best for: Those who spend their lunch breaks on Vogue.com in search of the latest catwalk looks.
Price: From B500 for Thai stylist and from B1,500 for French stylist.

Heads Up

2/F, Park Lane Ekkamai, 02-382-0128, 081-647-1777. Open Tue-Sun 10am-7pm.
Not exactly a place for a haircut or coloring, Heads Up is where you pamper you hair and scalp. Offering a wide range of treatments for different types of problems, from damaged hair to alopecia, Heads Up uses pure organic Thai herbs in order to get rid of all the artificial substances from your hair. With only three seats available, a reservation is recommended. Treatments last for more than an hour, but you can walk out with a head-wrap if you just absolutely need to get back to the office.
Best for: Beauty queens who’ve done too much coloring.
Price: Treatment starts from B450 for men and B550 for women.

Seat for Set

2/F, Park Lane, Ekkamai, 02-382-1600. Open daily 9am-9pm.
A homey little salon with only six seats hidden on the second floor of Park Lane, offering hair styling from two pros who have competed in contests from Katevadee Institute. The wooden and black furniture décor will make you feel like you’re getting the service right back at your own home.
Best for: Couples looking for a hair date at an affordable price.
Price: Haircut from B400 for men and B500 for women. B2,500-B3,000 for a 10-session hair spa.

Phy-A

73 Sukhumvit 63 (Ekkamai), 02-391-6442. Open Thu-Tue 10am-6pm.
Claims to be the first hair color bar in Thailand, allowing you to co-create the right color you want. All techniques used at Phy-A are acquired directly from Colorsophist NOBU, a world-leading hair pro colorist from Tokyo and a long-time stylist and colorist of Hollywood celebrities. Downstairs from the salon is a café serving inter dishes. You might also consider getting a fancy Harajuku manicure on your way out.
Best for: Hi-sos who want to make an afternoon-long lunch/manicure/gossip session of their new haircut.
Price: Coloring B2,900-7,900. Dry cut B900-1,500. At the café, mains run from B220-B290.

Colonic Hydrotherapy

Why you need to do it: You just ate your way through the holidays: oysters, turkey, cake, foie gras, roast, more cake…
The claim: Over the years, waste accumulates on the inside surface of your colon, making your digestive system less efficient.
What it’s like: 15 gallons of purified water will be pressured gently into your colon through a small tube to dislodge the accumulated waste. You then head to the toilets (no running needed) and let it all come out.
Where: Colonic detoxification is now almost as common as going for a foot massage. Book yourself a 45-min Colon Hydrotherapy for B2,650 at Rasayana Retreat (57 Soi Prommitr, Sukhumvit Soi 39, 02-662-4803. www.rasayanaretreat.com).
The natural way: Most doctors say colonics are useless and could even weaken your digestive system if done too often. Instead, eat plenty of fiber and not too much fat or meat. You can also find cleansing recipes online but we don’t recommend to go hard on those either.

Lymphatic Drainage

Why you need it: If you’ve been working way too hard at the office, had few opportunities to move around, and feel like you easily run out of energy.
The claim: Unlike the heart that has its own circulating pump, the lymph fluid moves through vessels every time we move. The Lymphatic Drainage massage wakes up this lymph system and lets it do its work: transporting immune cells around the body and carrying away fat.
What it’s like: A massage.
Where: Go to TRIA Integrative Wellness (998 Rimklongsamsen Road, Bangkapi, 02-660-2602. www.triaintegrativewellness.com) for their Manual Lymphatic Drainage treatment at B2,200.
The natural way: Eat beetroot 2-3 times a week and exercise.

Liver Detoxification

Why you need it: You’ve had ten too many over the New Year’s.
The claim: Gallstones accumulate in your liver, holding toxins, fat, and sludge that prevent your liver from functioning properly and causing general illness.
What it’s like: After around 20 sessions of colonic detox, you will be given a set of ingredients like grapefruit and epsom salt to mix yourself a drink before going to sleep. The next morning, the stones will be flushed out together with your feces on your first toilet visit.
Where: Visit Hydro Health (494, 4/F, Erawan, Ploenchit, 02-250-7800. www.hydrohealth.co.th) for their Liver Flush treatment package. 24 sessions costs you B62,000.
The natural way: Drink fresh lime juice mixed with warm water every morning and stop drinking so much. Avoid fatty foods, too.

Skin Detoxification

Why you need it: Baking in the sun during that weekend in Chiang Mai and hanging out at beer parks with all that Bangkok pollution has taken a toll on your normlly flawless skin.
The claim: Simply washing with water and soap leaves some chemicals and toxins behind. A detox will improve your skin’s immune system and overall glow.
What it’s like: It’s not unlike a scrub, which has the added bonus of stimulating your lymphatic system.
Where: Go to S Medical Spa (2/2 Bhakdi Building, Wireless Rd., Lumpini, 02-253-1010. www.smedspa.com) and ask for their five-star Golden Silk Scrub treatment (B2,351) or a Half-Day Purification (B6,000).
The natural way: Mix pure tamarind juice with turmeric powder and a little bit of water. Make sure the ingredients are not too watery, then apply the mixture onto your skin and start scrubbing gently with a loofah. After 15 minutes, apply plain yogurt onto your skin and give yourself a little massage. Leave for 10 minutes then take a cold shower.

Hair Detoxification

Who needs it: You’ve been out in the sun and sea, and coating your tresses in products for fancy hairdos for New Year parties. Now your hair is a sad mess.
The claim: Every time you apply creams, shampoos and conditioners to your hair—not to mention perming and coloring—you’re causing a toxic buildup of chemicals.
What it’s like: Getting your hair washed out several times with hair detox products imported from Germany. The treatment finishes with some creams and leaves your hair with a touch of silk.
Where: Head to Salon de Bkk (2/F, Emporium, 02-664-8880. www.salondebkk.com) and ask for their hair detox program, starting B3,000.
The natural way: Mix plain yogurt and little amount of olive oil together, then apply the mixture onto your hair. Give it a little massage and leave for 30 minutes or more for absorbtion. Wash it off by doing your normal shampooing routine.

FOR MEN

1. TOPMAN, B1,450

2. TOPMAN, B990

3. Greyhound, B2,595

4. XXI Forever, B1,690

5. TOPMAN, B2,690

6. TOPMAN, B2,150

7. TOPMAN, B1,450

8. Jaspal, B495

Guys’ tip: Be safe and prepared, guys. Who knows what might happen on NYE? If you don’t want to lose all sensation down there, try Durex’s new super-thin (48 micron) condom, the Durex Featherlite Ultima for featherlite results. B58 per box of three condoms.  

FOR WOMEN

1. Disaya, B3,950

2. Steve Madden, B5,900

3. XXI Forever, B390

4. Jaspal, B2,595

5. XXI Forever, B1,690

6. XXI Forever, B990

7. TOPSHOP, B2,550

8. Katemoss TOPSHOP, B4,350

Girls’ tip: Classy, dark-colored evening wear means you can get away with more makeup, so make sure you opt for distinctive red lips that stand out from the crowd, such as the colors from MAC’s latest collection, Stylishly Yours.

Essentials

Jaspal. 2/F, Siam Center, 02-251-5968
Disaya. Lobby, Gaysorn Plaza, 02-656-1388
TOPSHOP TOPMAN. 1/F, CentralWorld, 02-613-1660
XXI Forever. 2/F, CentralWorld, 02-613-1426
Senada. 3/F, Siam Center, 02-658-1000
Greyhound. 3/F, Siam Center, 02-251-4917
Steve Madden. 2/F, Siam Discovery, 02-658-0299

FACE LIFT

• THE PATIENT: MRS. H., age 55
• The Job: Theeraporn Clinic
• The Cost: B70,000

Why did you choose to get a face lift?
My cheeks and especially my lower eyelids were being attacked by gravity. I did all the moisturizing and facial massaging but nothing really helped. So I stopped fiddling and decided to get it done.
How did you pick your doctor?
I had heard of my particular doctor for a while, and I knew that he had at least 20 years experience doing this. Plus, one of my best friends also had surgery done by him, and she confirmed his skills.
How did your first appointment go?
He looked at my face, told me how he could fix the flaws and I agreed to do what he suggested. The clinic immediately gave me 3-4 pills to swallow before sending me to the operating room. I guess it was a mix of sedative and painkillers.
And the surgery?
I lay on the bed while the doctor kept me occupied with random chit chat. Even though there was no pain, I had this sensation as if ants were biting the area between my ear, and my cheek. The surgery took about an hour to finish.
And afterwards?
I didn’t really feel anything after the operation. They covered the stitches with cotton gauze to stop the bleeding, and also placed a headband across my head to make my face look normal. The doctor told me to go see him again after one week to remove the stitches.
Did it hurt?
I felt a little achey the next day. It was bearable, but I needed to take very good care of the wounds, and wasn’t able to wash my hair for a whole week. The ache disappeared on the second week. It felt great.
How do you like the results?
The excess skin vanished and my face became firmer. Most people can’t tell I had a face lift. Instead, they think I just took very good care of my face, and that I look so much younger than I really am. The surgery was quite expensive, but it gave me a great deal of satisfaction. So I’d say, if you’ve got the money, do it.”

Non-Invasive Alternative

Carboxy instead of Liposuction

THE PATIENT: MISS T., age 32
The Job: Carboxy Therapy, Gaysorn Plaza
The Cost: B500-B1,000 per session
WHY: I’ve always felt that my arms were too big and not very proportionate when compared to other parts of my body.
HOW: They made me lie down on the bed and then used two latex tubes to tighten my arms; one near the shoulder, and the other, next to my elbow. Then they pinned a very small needle attached with a flexible tube into my arm and started pumping in the gas. I told them to stop when I started to feel an unbearable pressure in my arm. They left the needle in for the gas to do its work. After twenty minutes, they pulled the needle out.
WHY: One good thing about Carboxy is that there’s no need for a special care after the procedure, unlike liposuction. There was nothing changed, only my arms swelled for an hour. It felt like I had just done an exhausting arm exercise.
THE PAIN: It was a little sore during the first phase of the process. Then I’d felt an enormous pressure in my arm. I’ve heard from some people that they’d normally be able to take in about 100-gas pressure unit, but for me, I had it at only 10, and couldn’t take anymore. It was not only my arm that hurt, but the pressure spread throughout my whole body.
THE RESULTS: My arms weren’t really smaller. But I think it’s actually because I needed to do it several times to get results. My friends got what they wanted by their third session. But to tell the truth, I couldn’t bear the pain, and I’m not going back—ever!

What the Doc Says

“If you have the money, I’d say, have a try, but in my opinion, liposuction really works.  I’m not saying there isn’t any risk. The surgery can worsen what you’ve already got, but to tell you the truth, I think Carboxy’s a waste of time.” —Dr Chartchai Rattanamahattana

SEX CHANGE (GENDER REASSIGNMENT SURGERY)

• THE PATIENT: Miss V., age 31
• The HOSPITAL: Piyavet Hospital
• The Cost: B200,000

Why did you decide to get the surgery?
All my life I’ve wanted to become a woman, so I decided to go ahead to complete my femininity.
How did you pick the surgeon?
I was lucky that my mother has a doctor friend, who happens to be a great surgeon. She recommended me to a doctor at Piyavet Hospital. The best thing was that they did monthly check ups to follow up on how I was doing.
What came before the operation?
First, they sent me to have a talk with their psychologist and see if I was truly ready to get it done. I also needed to have an HIV test, and blood pressure check. Once I passed all the examinations, the doctor sent me home with a five-day meal timetable. I was only allowed to have liquid food like soups or very plain rice porridge so that my body basically contained nothing but water.
How did the operation go?
Lying on the bed, the doctor told me to relax and then injected the sedative into a vein on the back of my hand. In less than five minutes, I fell into a very deep sleep. The next thing I knew, I was already in the ward. I was told I was in the operating room for about seven hours.
How did you feel?
I woke up feeling very blurry. There were tubes everywhere. The saline drip was inserted into my left hand and the pulse rate meter on the right. There was also a tube attached into the bulging part of my new female sex organ to take the blood out of my body. I was also new to the whole female peeing thing so they had another tube inserted into my urethra to ease me into the process. On the third day after surgery, my body got used to the new organ and I was ready to pee on my own.
Did it hurt?
I have to admit it was extremely painful from the moment I woke up. I couldn’t move much and that part was swollen for almost two months. But after that, the scars started to disappear and the pain had gone completely. I could sit and walk just the way I used to.
How do you feel now?
I have more confidence, and feel more like myself. People keep telling me that my body shape really changed and looks more feminine in every way. I think it’s because there is no longer an organ producing male hormones left in my body. Still, I also have to take the birth control pill every day to help maintain the right hormone balance. In terms of sex I have the same feelings as any women. I just don’t get quite as much lubrication as they might when aroused.

What the Doc Says

“Sexual Reassignment is a big operation and the patients definitely need proper counseling with a psychologist to confirm that they’re making the right decision. Once you’ve done it, there’s no turning back. It’s also perhaps more risky than other surgeries, so the candidate will need to do a lot of research and try not to be induced by commercial ads.” —Dr. Chartchai Rattanamahattana

Blepharoplasty (Double Eyelid Surgery)

The PATIENT: MISS P., age 21
The HOSPITAL: Bangmod Hospital
The Cost: B20,000

Why did you want this operation?
I’m [ethnically] Chinese and so I have small eyes. It would take me a lot of time in the morning to do my makeup, especially my eyes, as I used a special glue that helps double my eyelids. My parents thought it wasn’t very healthy, too. Still they did think that having bigger eyes could help improve my fortune, as per Chinese beliefs.
How did you pick the hospital?
I had a chance to talk to this movie producer who knows a lot of celebrities that had the operation done. He suggested that I do it at Bangmod because they’ve done a lot of great work. Then I did a lot more research on the Internet about the surgery methods, and what I should be expecting if I decided to do it.
What happened next?
After all the research, I made an appointment with the hospital then got to meet the surgeon. I had my eyelids glued so I could show them how I would like it to be. The doctor told me he could make that happen right away and I said, “Yes!” I had no time to prepare. The only thing I could do at that time was to tell myself everything would work out fine.
How did the operation go?
Once I walked into the surgery room, I was a bit paranoid. They told me to lie on the bed, and turned on some relaxing music to calm me down. The doctor injected the anesthetic into the area around my eyes then waited a bit for it to become numb. I was pretty nervous and my mind kept worrying about the result, so I couldn’t sleep. I could feel it when the doctor did something to my eyes and when he was doing the suturing. Luckily, I didn’t feel any pain.
How did you feel after the operation?
I was shocked, and started crying when I saw myself in the mirror after the 30-minute surgery. There were scars, and stitches coated with bloodstains almost everywhere on my face. Seeing the blood, I suddenly felt a massive pain around my eyes.
How long did it hurt?
My eyes were huge because of the swelling for about a week, but this did reduce by the second week. I was told to quit smoking and not to put on eye makeup for two weeks. I also had to clean the stitches with a saline solution everyday before taking a shower. The pain was taken care of by aspirin and my life got back to normal in about two weeks.
Are you happy with the results?
Most of the people who saw my new eyes said I looked prettier. I think I haven’t changed that much though. It’s only the eye feature that’s now sharper. The best thing is that my morning makeup routine is so much easier.

Eye Op Facts

1. The doctor will administer a small amount of anesthetic in the eye area, and create the incision lines by cutting the eyelids with the blade.
2. For patients with fat on the eyelid, the doctor will remove some of the fat and excess skin from the upper eyelid.
3. They use the smallest possible sized needle with removable or absorbable sutures to join together the eyelids, thus reducing the size of the wound and recovery time.
Source: Yanhee Hospital

Essentials

Bangmod Hospital. 59/7, Rama 2 Rd., 02-867-0606. www.bangmodhos.com
Dr. Somsak Khunjak’s Clinic. 410/43, Ratchada Soi 24, 02-541-5301 Gaysorn Plaza. 999, Ploenchit Rd., 02-656-1149. www.gaysorn.com
Piyavate Hospital. 998, Rimklongsamsen Rd., 02-625-6500. www.piyavate.com
Samitivej Sukhumvit Hospital. 133, Sukhumvit Soi 49, 02-711-8000. www.samitivejhospitals.com
Theeraporn Clinic. 422, Ta Dindaeng, Klongsan, 02-437-1525
Yanhee Hospital. 454, Charansanitwong Rd., 02-879-0300. www.yanhee.net

Whoa, slow down, tiger. Don't just rush out and get one done, read our Q&A with Dr. Chartchai Rattanamahattana, M.D., Board Certified Plastic and Cosmetic Surgeon at Samitivej Sukhumvit Hospital.

Did you know that there's 18% increase each year of Thais heading to Korea for plastic surgery?

Who doesn’t like to chill out at a small, cute café. In fact, for all the mushrooming of Starbucks and True coffee all over the city in recent years, we’ve also been seeing a lot of smaller coffee places opening up, many distinguishing themselves by selling fashion items to go with your coffee and snacks.

Nusara Chankaew, co-owner of 9cafe-closet, says, “At first we just wanted to have a place where we could gather, chat and chill out. But then the ideas got bigger. I love bakeries while my friends love fashion so we decided to combine the two.”

An online retailer of brand name bags, Sirima Kijpermpool, also known as Sophia, came up with a similar idea, which culminated in her four-month-old coffee shop which displays and sells brand name accessories. “I have always been passionate about brand name bags and I’d always thought of opening this type of cafe. When I actually saw one in Singapore, it confirmed that I should build one of my own here,” explains Sophia. “It’s a place where my customers can sit back and relax while also enjoying a conversation about brand name products over cups of coffee and tasty desserts.”
But FABB Fashion café, once a buzzing place, finally closed down after few years. Could this be a repeat of the internet café trend? “I don’t know how long it will last, but I just do my best to carry it on,” says Sophia.

9cafe-closet

1749/1, Town in Town 3/1, Ladprao Soi 94, 02-530-8233.
Open daily 10am-10pm. www.9cafecloset.com
A cute, hodge-podge concept combining Thai dishes, creamy desserts, coffee, and of course, fashion. You can either choose to chill with your friends inside, or have a seat outdoors for a romantic dinner with your date. But don’t miss checking out their collection of fashion items ranging from the princess blouses and skirts, to sharp cut pants and dresses imported from abroad, as well as exclusive and trendy designs by one of the co-owners. Prices start from B300-400.

Sophia Sweet Café

29-100, RCA, Rama 9 Rd., 084-421-6776. Open Mon-Fri 7.30am-8pm, Sat-Sun 10.30 am-7.30pm. www.sophia-brandname.com
If you happen to have an eye for glossy handbags, yearnings for both chic and cozy and a taste for coffee with low-fat ice cream, and homemade desserts, consider stopping by here after work. Apart from the free Wi-Fi, bag-obsessed ladies can also share their fondness for high-end handbags with like-minded fashionistas.

Montra Café

56 Yada Bldg. 1/F, Silom Rd., Suriyawongse, Bangrak,
089-483-0859, 087-681-9051, 02-662-6196.
Open daily 7am-11pm. www.montrajewelry.com
Two sisters, a baker and a jewelry designer are behind this cozy café bathed in mysterious purple, offering office workers around Silom good coffee, baked goods and a spot of lunchtime accessories shopping.

It’s Happened to be a Closet

2/F, Emporium, Sukhumvit Rd., 02-664-7211. Open Daily 10am-10pm. http://itshappenedtobeacloset.wordpress.com
The shop started small, ages ago, in Siam Square Soi 4, and has expanded its branches over the past few years, both here and abroad. The Emporium one has an charming café setting at the front and a dining area that gives an open kitchen atmosphere. The inside packs a variety of colorful clothes cluttered around the shop. All the garments are unique designs, and mostly inspired by a sense of vintage without any overtly trendy influences. The place also offers also lots of other, services like nail manicure, hairdressing, and foot massage. For more privacy, book their private room and you’ll be able to dine away from the Emporium foot traffic.

Popping in for a boob job or a bigger nose feels about as common now as getting highlights in your hair. We talk to people who decided to go under the knife and get the ultimate makeover. Why did they do it, how did it feel and, most importantly, what do they think about the results? Are the expense and pain of elective surgery really worth a brand new look?

BREAST IMPLANT

The PATIENT: Miss B., 25
The PLACE: Piyavet Hospital
The Cost: B120,000

Why did you decide to get breast implants?
I had always been dissatisfied with the way my body looked and I really wanted to get my boobs done to boost my self-esteem. I wanted to look better. It’s also easier when selecting and wearing clothes.
How did you choose the hospital?
The surgeon’s skill was my first priority, followed by price. I asked other people, mostly my friends, or friends of friends who’d had it done. Asking people I could trust who were satisfied with the results and getting to touch their breasts was helpful reference.
What was the process before the operation?
I met with the doctor and had an initial consultation where I selected the breast size I wanted. After that it was a matter of showing up and the hospital did the rest. Having a friend stay with you to help afterwards is really recommended.
What about the operation itself?
They injected me with anesthetic so I wasn’t conscious during the surgery. It only took about 30 minutes to get the breasts done.
How did you feel afterwards?
The pain wasn’t as bad as I thought it was going to be when I woke up. It just felt like the muscles and fibers in my chest were being stretched. I also had a cramp in my back caused by staying in one position for a long time. I think that was the worst part.
How long did it take to recover?
I felt no pain after the second day, and was able to drive on the third day after surgery. The swelling lasted for about two weeks.
Was it worth it?
I am now more confident with how I look. I am pleased with my body with and without clothes. I’d say I’m 100 percent happy with the result. I really made the right decision.

What the Doc Says

”The biggest problem that breast implant patients face is that the outcome looks unreal or stiff. Choosing the implant size is an important decision. To avoid disappointing results, the person needs to understand their body size. Don’t just focus on having it big, but instead, look for something that’ll make your body proportionate. Also, try to research as much as you can about the implants that your doctor is planning to use. Don’t trust the sales, and don’t count too much on friends’ feedback.”
—Dr. Chartchai, Rattanamahattana, Samitivej Hospital

Boob Job Facts

1.The incision actually takes place in the armpit area so you will have a slight scar.
2. After the scar vanishes, the patient will need to massage their new breasts for the next six months after surgery. This is to make the breasts soften and look more natural.
3. The recovery period for small surgery like eyelid surgery will only take around 1-2 weeks, while breast surgery patients need to rest for about one month.
Source: Yanhee Hospital

NOSE JOB (RHINOPLASTY)

• THE PATIENT: MISS S., age 21
• The PLACE: Dr. Somsak Khunjuk’s Clinic
• The Cost: B75,000

Why did you choose to get a nose job?
I wasn’t very satisfied with my natural appearance and always wanted to have a more exotic look. Most of my friends had done it, so it kind of made me feel that plastic surgery wasn’t such a big deal.
How did you choose the clinic? Before picking a place, I did a lot of online research and also got my friends’ testimonials. My friends are pretty familiar with the industry and so I gained a lot of insight from them. The Internet was also a very good source. They have the best doctors ranked, based on each type of surgery.
Were you anxious?
I went in for the consultation and by the next day, I was up on the table, ready for the chop. I wasn’t very well prepared, so I got nervous and kept thinking about the pain at the end of the surgery.
How did it go?
I wasn’t unconscious so I sensed almost everything the doctor did to my face. First he injected my nose with lots of anesthetic, which really hurt. I wanted the doctor to stop but I knew there’s no beauty without pain, so I endured it. I saw the doctor carve a silicon stick before he asked me my preferred style. I hadn’t thought about that so I let him chose. After the doctor finished carving, he drilled a hole in my nose, before inserting the silicon piece inside. He then fiddled with the stick until it fit perfectly.
And after the operation?
Near the end of the operation the anesthetic wore off and I could feel everything. It was horrifying, but I didn’t want to be injected with anesthetic again so I just had to bear it. Out of the room, I didn’t feel anything much, but there was a constant ache and some parts of my face were kind of bloated.
How long did the pain last?
About a week after the surgery, I went back to get the stitches removed. The pain started to fade after 3 days, but the swelling took about 2 weeks to go down. I think it took me about a month to be fully recovered.
Was it worth it?
The surgery helped boost my confidence, and I’ve got a lot of compliments saying how pretty my nose structure looks now. I really like the result of the surgery and I am certainly more than 100 percent satisfied. Other people might feel that their noses look fake after the job, but I think mine looks very natural.

KNOW Your Nose

During the surgery, the surgeon will have to drill the nose bone to make an opening wound, just large enough to insert the silicone. After shaping the nose, the doctor may then need to use a band aid or cast to stop the stick from moving around or changing shape.
Source: Yanhee Hospital

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